A simple guide to avoid wasting time (most precious resource for men and women, especially w/r/t female SMV wall/fertility cliff) and to maximize healthy, purposeful, meaningful and productive Sexual Marketplace interactions.
Inspired by (but unaffiliated with) Tim Ferris, this guide is brought to you by FAM, the family formation memeplex founded by Tim & Aimee Parsa. Learn more by joining the FAM Startup Community: Family Formation First.
My name is Tim Parsa, co-founder (with my partner Aimee) of the FAM Startup Community dedicated to innovating on family formation with better memes and tech. We are building a mating app that matches users based on family formation and coparenting preferences, integrates our AI vibe check tool (you talk, ai scores), genetic compatibility scoring algorithm powered by Nucleo (because family is about making babies), and our family court coparenting agreement filing service (because things don’t always work out).
I recommend the 4-Hour Family to all my founders, male and female, to avoid wasting time (their most precious resource, especially w/r/t female fertility cliff) and to maximize healthy, purposeful, meaningful Sexual Marketplace interactions.
❌ Don’t waste time scrolling endlessly on dating apps fishing for cheap dopamine fixes or riding the coitus carousel endlessly until you are incapable of a meaningful intimate relationship And don’t settle for the first relationship that doesn’t absolutely suck.
✔️Do spend four hours per week on purpose-driven sexual marketplace prospecting and cultivation of relationships that can lead to family and children.
Four Hour Family Formation Top of Funnel:
Hour 1: Dating apps. Dedicate one hour per week (no more!), notifications off. Lots of good advice online w/r/t how to optimize your dating profile and the app algo. Be strategic and tactical. Make sure you understand this Parsagram before your first swipe.
Hour 2: Short Vibe Checks. These must fit seamlessly into your life-- strolls, coffees, quick in person meetups, casual and quick (10-20 mins per vibe check) Join FAM to get early access to our AI vibecheck ai tool (you talk, we judge) to score compatibility based on your conversation during these short meetups.
Family Formation Mid-Funnel Rules:
Hour 3: longer vibechecks (20-30 mins), above-the-waist intimacy only until genetic compatibility results, focus conversation on nuts and bolts of family formation and coparenting preferences: how many kids, when, where, how to raise, coparenting preferences, education, diet, activities, social, finances, etc.
Rule 1: genetic compatibility testing. Might as well throw in STD lab check. Clear away any potential obstacles for future baby-making. Upload your Nucleus report to the Fam genetic compatibility AI tool to flag any problems.